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Jeff Pelletier's avatar

This is a really charming interaction - I hope Jasper carries it with him no matter where he goes. Loved hearing about the West Wing visit to the West Wing too. In light of what's happened on the other side of the building since you wrote this, I wonder if the show could even exist in today's world, as desperately as it might be needed.

Deb Forbes's avatar

Janel, don't ever leave Substack. Your essays are a light in my life.

Janel Moloney's avatar

Thank you! Writing is hard so we’ll see!! Haha

Larry Robbins's avatar

A wonderful piece. I can imagine Jasper watching the West Wing and being amazed that he got to chat with Donna.

Janel Moloney's avatar

If he watches it!!

Ashley Hunt-Martorano's avatar

I’m not crying. YOU’RE crying.

Mike Tedescucci's avatar

This is just amazing. It really screamed the hope of Donna. I loved every second of reading this essay.

Janel Moloney's avatar

Thanks Mike:)

Alan Stamm's avatar

What a meaningful gift you gave Jasper -- nurturing his career dream and reinforcing the value of political volunteering. Way to elevate a brief, random encounter into a spark that may last a lifetime . . . because "make believein' is hard alone, out here on [his] own."

You inspire across generations, Janel.

Janel Moloney's avatar

Hilarious. Thanks Alan!

Ben Woestenburg's avatar

Very interesting. I'm sort of sitting on the stoop in the twilight of my years. When I meet someone who says they want to peruse the arts -- any of them -- I encourage them. I tell them if you don't at least try, you'll never know and it will haunt you forever. I never made anything of myself, but I never stopped dreaming. Once I found Substack, I knew I could make something of myself, and be something to myself. So it's never too late. I chased my dreams and finally caught up to them. Now, I write long novella length stories and don't care if people read them or not. I write for myself. And I'm damned good at it. It's great to see that people still have dreams like that kid. No one ever encouraged me like that when I was younger, except for my parents, but who ever listens to their parents?

Janel Moloney's avatar

Good for you Ben. Life is long I guess. Keep trying right?!

Colleen Schulz's avatar

Amazing! Best thing I’ve read today! I’m so glad this young man ran into you!

Janel Moloney's avatar

I hope he isn’t horrified if he reads this!

Cathy's avatar

Your essays are wonderful. I look forward to them like I look forward to conversing with a good friend. I love the stories behind the episodes and the weaving in of insights to your current life. You are not only a wonderful actress/performer but a beautiful writer. Keep the essays coming, please.

Janel Moloney's avatar

Hi Cathy. Thank you pal. ❤️

Julia Lauren's avatar

Wait I think this is my favorite essay so far! So real and so much depth for the moment you shared. Love this so much. Happiest of Sundays to you Janel.

Janel Moloney's avatar

I labored over this for some reason! Thank you!!

Alan Stamm's avatar

My most-admired too. A brief encounter that likely makes a lasting impression.

Crystalwheel - My Road To Now's avatar

And I watch the West Wing every night because it gives me hope to watch all of you attempt to govern our country. Thank you, 26 years later

Janel Moloney's avatar

Thank you for reading!

Mike Jones's avatar

The visit to the Bush White House seems quaint now; was there actually a time when you could have some respect for others whose politics were different?

A large part of my fascination with your writing is learning about a life so different from mine. Besides being dumbfounded by educated people condoning things going on today, there aren't many similarities. Back in the day, I didn't even get a part in my 6th grade play. But a couple of things strike me as great about a life like yours, however imperfect the life of an actor may be. One, the legacy you leave. Within moments, I can see 30ish Donna sassing Josh. Two, the ability to affect and inspire the lives of others. Just ask Jasper. Or Allison White.

This essay is some of your best work.

Janel Moloney's avatar

Thanks so much Mike. xx

Molly Goggins Talbot's avatar

“No!!” he said, excited. “Are you in that?”

I’m eating alone at a restaurant and that made me laugh out loud so much that people turned heads.

Janel Moloney's avatar

You’re weird why are you writing here hahah

Molly Goggins Talbot's avatar

I try to always leave a comment! And sometimes I side text 😂

Erin's avatar

THAT was delightful. It's been a good weekend for delight - thank you!!

Janel Moloney's avatar

Thank you Erin!

Marie's avatar

This pocket of hope was so beautiful to read the day after the No Kings protest. Thank you.

Janel Moloney's avatar

That was an amazing day!

Christine's avatar

lovely read and i’m sure he’ll remember ur advice forever, hopeful for zohran!

Janel Moloney's avatar

Thanks Christine!!!

Alan Stamm's avatar

I had a similar thought about the lasting impact of Janel's heartfelt advice, Christine, and imagine Jasper may be inspired to pay it forward in wherever his career leads. A brief and potentially priceless front stoop conversation on a Sunday in Brooklyn.

Janel Moloney's avatar

Sorry Alan that was meant for Christine hahah